There was a small hint of possibilities when I was watching the clip on the Nature Care website from one of my previous teachers and she was talking about the Life Coaching Course and the opportunity to either work for yourself or use Life Coaching skills in a workplace. Hmm... this sense of possibilities resonated with me...
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Thursday, July 7, 2011
My Uniqueness, My Greatness
I am a big believer that we all have a Life Purpose or Soul Purpose, that is different for each and every person. We all have our Unique Gifts and I believe that when we are in the space that allows us to express our Uniqueness and Greatness, we feel alive. And the opposite of this is also true.
I have been asking myself what is “My Uniqueness, My Greatness For The Glory Of God”? In being Christian I do believe that God has made us as unique beings (in his image) and by following the guidance of the Holy Spirit, listening to The Call, we can live our truth and serve God for the greater good of all.
Thanks to the Process of my Coaching Course I was able to discover my Life Purpose as “To Love and Serve, to Spread The Yellow, to Make A Difference” and lately I have been asking myself, am I living this everyday - or how can I better live this every day.
I love my work Coaching my Clients - it is wonderful and such an honour to be a Coach. The work that I love is helping Clients access their own truth, where they can be true to themselves in the daily lives - in their relationships and their work. I am committed to being an Integral Practitioner and so I challenge myself to live my highest potential by also being true to myself.
I have been working for four days in a company as a Team Leader/ Project Leader. I have enjoyed my job - I understand the work, I feel that I do it well, the company is local to my home - and yet I do not feel alive or energised. And in reflection, I feel that there is not the room to fully express my Gifts, my Self, my all, My Uniqueness, My Greatness.
I have been reading Man’s Search For Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl which is based on his experience and learnings of being in a concentration camp and a quote I love is “it did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us.”
I have been praying, asking God, where can I serve, and asking him to open up opportunities for me. And I have been sitting with a sense of peace, trusting in God.
There have been signs and I am glad that I paid attention.
There was a small hint of possibilities when I was watching the clip on the Nature Care website from one of my previous teachers and she was talking about the Life Coaching Course and the opportunity to either work for yourself or use Life Coaching skills in a workplace. Hmm... this sense of possibilities resonated with me...
There was a small hint of possibilities when I was watching the clip on the Nature Care website from one of my previous teachers and she was talking about the Life Coaching Course and the opportunity to either work for yourself or use Life Coaching skills in a workplace. Hmm... this sense of possibilities resonated with me...
The first real sign was how uncomfortable I was feeling at work when people in my workplace were making jokes and remarks about minority groups and people who have disabilities. I know that they were harmless remarks and were said without meaning to be offensive - and yet I felt so anxious and stressed every time I heard these remarks. My oldest friend is in a wheelchair and I am so aware of her huge ability and how amazing she is - and so any comments about people with disabilities makes me feel that I can’t breathe. This reaction got me thinking...
At Church I asked the Pastor to pray for me and she prayed that conversations would take place and there would be new possibilities for my Lifework.
I then went to a Coaching Workshop and was talking about my reaction to what was happening at work. Then after meeting fellow Coaches who were working in organisations where there is more room for them to share their skills, I felt Inspired to look at Seek on the computer. At that time I intuitively felt The Call to look at Recruitment Services for people who are unemployed and may also have disabilities. Instantly I felt excited and passionate and without any hesitation I started applying for positions.
I am now so excited that I have found a great new job. On Monday 18 July 2011 I start a new role as a Group Facilitator for job seekers and a Placement Consultant for adults and teenagers with short-term and medium-term disabilities. I am so excited that I feel that I will be able to use my Training and Life Coaching skills on a daily basis. I am not sure where this Journey will lead me, and I feel excited that I can show up with love and help people to see their own Uniqueness and Greatness so that they feel confident and Empowered to be the Creators of their own lives.
I feel excited that I am answering The Call of my Soul.
I have been reading Soul Currency by Ernest D. Chu, another brilliant book, and I love all of the stories that highlight the Uniqueness and Greatness of individuals:
- Walter Simonson studied a major in Geology, and everyone who did not know him thought that he was very serious - however he had a gift for drawing fantasy stories and on Saturday nights he would share his comics with his friends - his parents wanted him to study medicine - today Walt Simonson is one of the most beloved comic book illustrators and writers, his joy and talent show in illustrations in The Hobbit, Thor, X-Factor and The Making of a Sorcerer - he has reached the top of his profession
- As a young six-year old girl Author J.K.Rowling would write fantasy stories about rabbits in her diary, and through following her Soul Purpose and using her Uniqueness and Greatness has successfully written Harry Potter, a series that people all over the world love
- Kenny Kramm worked as a pharmacy technician in his family business, and when he had his second child, his little girl at only ten days old had a massive brain hemorrhage - Kenny and his Wife tried to give their Daughter medicines to help manage her cerebral palsy and seizures, yet their daughter would spit out the awful-tasting medicines - Kenny then started experimenting with harmless additives and flavours, where the drive to help his daughter and then the idea of helping other children has encouraged him in his work - today FLAVORx Inc is the leader in flavourings for medicines
- John Wood took a vacation from his high-stress job as a Microsoft Marketing Executive - he also had an intention to find meaning in his life - he went hiking in the Himalayas and visited a school where he noticed the school’s library only had a few books left behind by hikers - John Wood soon resigned from Microsoft and established Room To Read, an organisation dedicated to foster literacy in countries affected by poverty
- John Robbins went to Harvard and was being groomed to be President of the family business, Baskin-Robbins, one of the world’s largest ice cream producers - but he believed that ice cream contributed to “disharmony with our environment” and wrote the prize winning Diet For A New America.
Mother Teresa once said “It is not the magnitude of our actions but the amount of Love that is put into them that matters.” Love is what will Inspire me as I start my new job and commit to making a difference.
Sunday, May 29, 2011
1 Year
In 1 Year so much has happened, there have been some big changes in my life.
I am most Excited that I am now Married. Getting Married to My Man was such a wonderful day - the happiest day of my life. Words cannot really capture the Joy and Excitement and Love of our day on 11 April 2011. It was such a perfect day. What made it so perfect was being so happy and in Love - we had the biggest smiles all day. It was also a perfect day, being surrounded by so many of our closest Family and Friends, those who we Love. My Nieces were our Flowergirls and they looked so beautiful - it was so special having them be a part of our day. I love my Nieces so much. And it was very special for me having my Mum and Dad share our day. I am so lucky to now have a wonderful Husband - who is my best friend, my everything. I am very blessed.
And our Honeymoon was FANTASTIC! It was so great going away together to Fiji, we just loved it! No computers, no TV, no phones, just beautiful warm weather, relaxing days just the two of us. Bula, Bula - everyone is so friendly. The food was incredible, so much food - best fish I have ever tasted. My Man loved the snorkelling, I saw this totally new side to him - he was so active and excited about going snorkelling and kayaking. And I loved the swimming pool - as soon as I woke up I was in my swimming costume and just loved swimming in the pool. I really loved the opportunity to relax in paradise together. PARADISE is the word!!!
The Turtle is important in Fiji - it means goodluck. I loved the Turtles on Treasure Island. My life has been filled with good blessings in the last 1 Year.
And I do believe in making my own goodluck. I am blessed that My Man came into my life and yet I do know that as soon as I became clear and conscious about what I wanted in a relationship, that I was able to be so confident that My Man was so right for me. I also did not settle for anything less than the Vision I had for my True Love. Finally!!! I am happy and in Love. And the greatest realisation is that neither my Husband or I have to be perfect - we Love each other, we can grow together, we can learn and get to know all the different Parts of each other - and best of all, we are the Creators of our life together.
In the last 1 Year I have also been learning from being in my own Coaching business. I have been Coaching for 1 Year now and now is the time for self-reflection - to look at what I have learnt and take those learnings to plan for the next 1 Year ahead.
I am happy. It has been a wonderful 1 Year. I am also blessed that my Mum is well and happy and healthy and we had a lovely Mother and Daughter day today. And I always love to see my Dad, it has also been a big 1 Year for him.
It has been a big 1 Year. Some things are not within my control - and yet I am choosing to focus on what I can control - choosing positive thoughts, letting go of worry, and very importantly taking ACTION towards my Goals - what are my Goals? Time to set some new Goals - where do I want to be 1 Year from now? I have learnt from the last 1 Year that I can make a difference, that I can consciously choose - now it is time to Visualise 1 Year from now and also start taking steps in that direction.
This week I plan to make time to reflect on the question on the back of my Business Card -
Ask yourself from the heart, if I could be, do or have anything I would definitely...
... Stay tuned...
In the last 1 Year I have also been learning from being in my own Coaching business. I have been Coaching for 1 Year now and now is the time for self-reflection - to look at what I have learnt and take those learnings to plan for the next 1 Year ahead.
I am happy. It has been a wonderful 1 Year. I am also blessed that my Mum is well and happy and healthy and we had a lovely Mother and Daughter day today. And I always love to see my Dad, it has also been a big 1 Year for him.
It has been a big 1 Year. Some things are not within my control - and yet I am choosing to focus on what I can control - choosing positive thoughts, letting go of worry, and very importantly taking ACTION towards my Goals - what are my Goals? Time to set some new Goals - where do I want to be 1 Year from now? I have learnt from the last 1 Year that I can make a difference, that I can consciously choose - now it is time to Visualise 1 Year from now and also start taking steps in that direction.
This week I plan to make time to reflect on the question on the back of my Business Card -
Ask yourself from the heart, if I could be, do or have anything I would definitely...
... Stay tuned...
Saturday, January 1, 2011
2011!!!
2011!!! I love the beginning of a New Year - it is such a great chance to set a Vision for the New Year - it is always a great chance for reflection and a great opportunity for excitement.
It has been great being on holidays this week - just a chance to relax and recharge and get ready for NOW, the New Year, 2011!!! One of my favourite things this week has been going to the Moonlight Cinema - I love being outdoors and I love movies and so it is a perfect enjoying this setting with My Man. We watched 'Life As We Know It' - a love story with a baby, loved it, love love stories, love babies.
This week I have also loved the chance to read a novel - wow - a story - fiction. I have always loved reading non-fiction, self-development books - and since becoming a Coach I now read personal development books with a broader agenda, which means I am always thinking how I can apply this knowledge for myself and to help my Clients. And so WOW - how great it feels to not think and just read a story. I read 'The Forgotten Garden' by Kate Morton - loved it - loved it so much that I just wanted to keep reading every chance I got - and what a great way to relax.
Another highlight this week has been planning our wedding - still a lot to do - and yet we got started. It is exciting and there is so much to do - and I feel relaxed trusting it will all come together.
New Year's Eve was great!!! We went to our favourite restaurant - an intimate Japanese restaurant - great food - just the two of us. We had been invited to a party with friends and yet we also like to enjoy a quiet night together as a great way to begin the New Year.
I loved the chance to reflect on our highlights of 2010 over dinner - so many highlights - getting engaged, starting to try for our own baby, my Mum feeling healthy, my Dad bouncing back after heart surgery, starting my own Coaching Business, My Man getting a new job (his dream job), My Man's Mum enjoying a nice holiday, time with my Nieces, time with our Families, day trips, dinners out, birthday celebrations, holiday away to Nelson Bay. For us there have been big things - and there has been much simplicity and small things being the big things.
After a lovely dinner, we enjoyed taking a walk along the beach I really love where we live. And then at home I loved watching a love story and watching the fireworks. It was nice to be at home when we enjoyed the 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1 Happy New Year 2011!!! It is great to feel so at home in our home, feeling so at home in my Self, feeling so at home with another. How many New Year's Eve nights, how many nights was I wishing I would kiss My True Love - I have always been looking for Love - and now I can stop searching - YAHOO!!!
So here we are - 2011!!! We enjoyed a nice lunch with Family and then a nice relaxing afternoon - a perfect start to the New Year. And how do I want this year to be for me - where do I want to be when I am sitting here on the first day of 2012 - how will I know it has been a great year? This time next year I will be a happy wife, a Mum, we will be living in a new home, my main work will be my lifework working one on one with my Coaching Clients and also running Workshops and Group Coaching and I will be writing books. What will not change - the most important thing to me is time with everyone I Love - Love will always be most important to me.
I love that I have my Vision Board for my Life Design in our bedroom - it is great seeing this when I wake up everyday - it is simple and it is clear - everything that is important to me.
And I love that I am in touch with my Passions and my Values. I have these on a board that I will also post up next to my bed - so that everyday I will remember what makes me feel alive - here I am 2011!!!
This is what it reads -
What are my PASSIONS? What Brings Me Alive?
How would I wish to spend my last day on earth?
Actually this is how I want to LIVE EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE...
”And these are a few of my favourite things...”
Love - Partner, Family, Friends, Clients, Love to All - I also can’t wait to be a Mum and have our own beautiful baby
God - Living InSpirit - Open to Inspiration, Space for the Rising of Spirit, Belief that we are all here for a Divine Purpose - I Am Here to Love and Serve
Connection - One-on-one sharing of Sacred Space, PRESENCE with another - Seeing, Honouring, Acknowledging the Light and Gifts in another - Loving and Encouraging Uniqueness and Greatness (Unity in Diversity, Joy of Differences and Similarities, Moment-to-Moment we can Rejoice in ‘X-Factor’ in each other - one of my favourite parts of College has been enjoying and being a Witness to the AMAZING Gifts and Uniqueness in each of us - WOW, AND Connection even when it is hard - Conscious Acceptance and Love of What Is...)
Coaching - I am very Passionate about Coaching and the opportunity to help Clients feel Self-Love, learn to be true to Self and feel Empowered to Create a life that Inspires and Excites them
Nature - Birds, trees, flowers, walking through the bush, floating in the ocean
Personal Development - Learning, Reading, Studying, Self-Reflection, Growth
Balance - Being/ Doing, Life/ Work, Personal/Professional, Solitude/ Intimacy - Allowing Space in my life for new interests to emerge - looking forward to enjoy time for sewing, writing, cooking, creating
Health - Self-Care Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually
Gratitude - Daily Reflection of all the beauty, wonders, miracles and Gifts in my life
Community - Feeling of Home and Belonging - Desire to Contribute - Feeling a sense of Love and Connection with others - Passionate about Encouraging Community to be Inclusive rather than Exclusive - Passionate about Contributing and being of Service Locally and Globally
Being Present - Mindfulness, Living in the Moment, Being Spontaneous and EMBRACING NOW, Enjoying Now, Trusting the Flow.
What are my PASSIONS? What Brings Me Alive?
How would I wish to spend my last day on earth?
Actually this is how I want to LIVE EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE...
”And these are a few of my favourite things...”
Love - Partner, Family, Friends, Clients, Love to All - I also can’t wait to be a Mum and have our own beautiful baby
God - Living InSpirit - Open to Inspiration, Space for the Rising of Spirit, Belief that we are all here for a Divine Purpose - I Am Here to Love and Serve
Connection - One-on-one sharing of Sacred Space, PRESENCE with another - Seeing, Honouring, Acknowledging the Light and Gifts in another - Loving and Encouraging Uniqueness and Greatness (Unity in Diversity, Joy of Differences and Similarities, Moment-to-Moment we can Rejoice in ‘X-Factor’ in each other - one of my favourite parts of College has been enjoying and being a Witness to the AMAZING Gifts and Uniqueness in each of us - WOW, AND Connection even when it is hard - Conscious Acceptance and Love of What Is...)
Coaching - I am very Passionate about Coaching and the opportunity to help Clients feel Self-Love, learn to be true to Self and feel Empowered to Create a life that Inspires and Excites them
Nature - Birds, trees, flowers, walking through the bush, floating in the ocean
Personal Development - Learning, Reading, Studying, Self-Reflection, Growth
Balance - Being/ Doing, Life/ Work, Personal/Professional, Solitude/ Intimacy - Allowing Space in my life for new interests to emerge - looking forward to enjoy time for sewing, writing, cooking, creating
Health - Self-Care Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually
Gratitude - Daily Reflection of all the beauty, wonders, miracles and Gifts in my life
Community - Feeling of Home and Belonging - Desire to Contribute - Feeling a sense of Love and Connection with others - Passionate about Encouraging Community to be Inclusive rather than Exclusive - Passionate about Contributing and being of Service Locally and Globally
Being Present - Mindfulness, Living in the Moment, Being Spontaneous and EMBRACING NOW, Enjoying Now, Trusting the Flow.
And I find that by Being Present in 2011 I am able to enjoy the Gifts of every day. Today when I am glancing out the window I am so Grateful for the Frangipani Tree that I can see - the flowers are beautiful - a Gift from God, and I have such great thanks.
And now I am so Grateful that I can make a nice cup of peppermint tea and relax with my Man.
To 2011 - to making every day a great day living a Passionate life. To making dreams come true. To being Me. And so important is to Love and Serve - to live my life on Purpose - to Spread The Yellow.
2011!!! I am ready.
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